Once my clients hit their 40s, they usually come to me wanting one thing: a hairstyle that makes them feel fresher, more confident, and a little bit unstoppable.
The truth is, 40+ is an amazing age to play with your look—you know what you like, you’re clearer on your style, and the right cut or updo can instantly lift your whole vibe.
I’ve rounded up 60 hairstyles for women over 40 that I regularly suggest in the salon when someone says, “I’m ready for an upgrade, but I still want something wearable and flattering.”
Why you’ll love these 40+ hairstyles
- They’re designed to soften features, add movement, and create a youthful, lifted effect without trying too hard.
- Most of them are easy to style on busy mornings but still look special for nights out or important events.
- There’s a mix of short, medium, and long hairstyles for women over 40, so you can find something that matches your lifestyle and maintenance level.
#1. Layered Lob with Soft Waves
I love this layered lob with soft waves for women over 40 who want to keep some length without dealing with heavy, unmanageable hair.
The layers remove weight and instantly create more body, while soft waves bring a romantic, face‑softening feel.
Ask for a collarbone‑grazing lob with blended layers, then style with a curling iron and finger‑comb for loose, touchable movement.
#2. Asymmetrical Short Cut
When you tell me you want “short and sassy,” this asymmetrical cut is one of my first ideas.
The longer side adds drama and angles, while the shorter side keeps things edgy yet surprisingly low‑maintenance.
Ask your stylist to leave one side longer around the face and keep the other tighter, then style with a little pomade for a chic, modern finish.
#3. Voluminous Shoulder-Length Waves
For big occasions—date nights, weddings, special dinners—these voluminous shoulder‑length waves are my go‑to glamour look.
The length is long enough to feel luxe but short enough to hold volume from root to tip.
Blow‑dry with a round brush, then add curls and set with a light hairspray to keep everything bouncy and full.
#4. Textured Pixie with Undercut
If you think pixies are always sweet and simple, this textured pixie with an undercut will change your mind.
The undercut adds edge and removes bulk, while the longer textured top lets you create height and drama.
Use a strong‑hold gel or wax to push the hair upward and forward for a bold, fashion‑forward silhouette.
#5. Sleek Mid-Length Cut with Side Bangs
Side bangs are an easy way to soften your face and bring attention to your eyes, especially in your 40s.
This sleek mid‑length cut works best on naturally straight or straightened hair and looks incredibly polished for work or evenings out.
Ask for a smooth, one‑length cut that hits around the shoulders with a sweeping side fringe you can tuck or style across your forehead.
#6. Classic Shoulder-Length Layered Cut
When someone wants something timeless that always works, this shoulder‑length layered cut is my safe, stylish choice.
The layers add body and movement to thinner hair and keep thicker hair from feeling heavy or bulky.
Style with a round brush or soft waves to really show off the dimension through the ends.
#7. Soft Feathered Bob
If your bob feels flat or boring, feathering is a beautiful way to bring it back to life.
Softly feathered layers create lightness and movement, making the hair look airy instead of boxy.
Ask for subtle, piecey layers around the perimeter and style with a lightweight mousse to keep everything soft and floaty.
#8. Wavy Bob with Side Parting
A wavy bob with a side part is one of those styles that instantly reads stylish and current.
The side part adds lift at the crown, and the waves pump up volume for anyone with fine or medium hair.
Use a curling wand and alternate directions, then flip your part to your fuller side for extra glam.
#9. Mid-Length Cut with Graduated Layers
If your mid‑length hair sits there with no shape, graduated layers will change everything.
They remove heaviness at the bottom and add subtle angles, making your haircut look modern and full of depth.
Ask for softly graduated layers and style with a blow‑dryer and round brush to accentuate the swing.
#10. Choppy Pixie with Long Bangs
This choppy pixie with long bangs is perfect when you want something effortless but full of personality.
The choppy texture makes styling quick, and the longer fringe beautifully highlights cheekbones and eyes.
Work a bit of texturizing cream through the top and let the bangs fall softly across the forehead or to the side.
#11. Elegant Updo for Medium Hair
For special events, I love putting medium‑length hair into a sleek, elegant updo.
It lifts your features, opens your neckline, and instantly makes any outfit feel more elevated.
Ask your stylist for a soft, pinned‑up style with volume at the crown, and leave a few tendrils out if you like a romantic touch.
#12. Short Layered Cut with Volume at Crown
If your short hair is falling flat, building volume at the crown is the quickest way to revive it.
Layers through the top combined with gentle backcombing create height and a flattering, elongated effect for the face.
Use a root‑lifting spray, backcomb lightly at the crown, and finish with a flexible hairspray.
#13. Mid-Length Shag with Bangs
A mid‑length shag with bangs is one of my favorite “cool but not trying too hard” looks for women over 40.
The shaggy layers add instant texture and movement, while bangs give a youthful, trendy edge.
Style with a salt spray or mousse and let your natural wave do the work for that laid‑back finish.
#14. Slicked Back Short Hairstyle
When you want something sleek, powerful, and very put‑together, a slicked‑back short cut is stunning.
Pushing the hair away from the face highlights your bone structure and can make your face look more lifted.
Use a strong gel or cream and comb the hair back, keeping the sides tight and the top slightly elevated.
#15. Layered Bob with Soft Fringe
This layered bob with soft fringe is one of my go‑tos when someone wants something feminine and gentle.
The soft waves through the bob and the light, face‑framing fringe work together to soften lines and add romance.
Ask for a short layered bob and wispy bangs that hit around the brows or just below.
#16. Textured Medium Cut with Side Swept Bangs
If your hair is finer and tends to fall limp, this textured medium cut with side‑swept bangs is a great fix.
The texture gives your hair more lift and grip, while the side‑swept fringe adds instant youthfulness.
Use a volumizing spray and a round brush, then finish by sweeping the bangs off to one side.
#17. Long Layers with Gentle Waves
For women who love their length, long layers with gentle waves keep things soft and romantic.
The layers prevent your hair from feeling weighed down, and the waves add flow and movement.
Use a large‑barrel curling iron and wrap big sections away from the face for an easy, flattering finish.
#18. Short Edgy Pixie Cut
When your personality is bold and fun, a short edgy pixie is the perfect match.
The close cut shows off your features, and the piecey texture lets you play with volume and direction.
Apply a texturizing product and rough things up with your fingers for that tousled, confident look.
#19. Wavy Lob with Middle Parting
This wavy lob with a middle part is flirty, modern, and super flattering on oval, round, diamond, and heart‑shaped faces.
The middle part balances your features, while the waves give lots of bounce and movement.
Use a curling wand and focus the curl from mid‑lengths down, then break them up with your fingers for soft, full waves.
#20. Side-Parted Bob with Soft Curls
A side‑parted bob styled with soft curls is perfect when you need a graceful, day‑to‑night hairstyle.
The side part adds a touch of drama, and the curls make short hair feel elegant and refined.
Use a small‑ to medium‑barrel iron, curl away from your face, and finish with a shine spray.
#21. Angled Bob with Sharp Lines
If you love structure and clean lines, this angled bob is a timeless choice.
The shorter back and longer front create a sleek, modern shape that never really goes out of style.
Ask for a precise, angled cut and keep styling smooth with a flat iron and smoothing serum.
#22. Shoulder-Length Cut with Soft End Curls
Adding soft curls just at the ends of your shoulder‑length cut is a simple way to make it feel more playful and youthful.
The straight top keeps things polished, while the flipped or curled ends add movement and charm.
Focus your curling iron only on the last few inches and gently brush through for a soft bend.
#23. Classic Bun for Long Hair
A classic bun is one of my favorite “from errands to evening” hairstyles for women over 40.
You can wear it low and loose for casual days or sleek and high for dressy events.
Smooth your hair into a ponytail, twist it into a bun, and secure with pins—then adjust tightness based on the occasion.
#24. Messy Pixie with Volume
If you want low‑maintenance hair that still looks styled, a messy pixie with volume is a great option.
The extra height on top creates a fun, youthful shape, and the messier texture keeps it from feeling too serious.
Work gel or mousse through damp hair, blow‑dry upward with your fingers, and scrunch until you like the volume.
#25. Straight Bob with Blunt Ends
For a minimalist, chic vibe, a straight bob with blunt ends is hard to beat.
The even line at the bottom makes your hair look thicker and gives a crisp, clean outline.
Use a flat iron for a sleek finish and apply a smoothing serum to emphasize that sharp, glossy edge.
#26. Casual Updo for Short to Medium Hair
On those third‑day hair mornings, a casual updo is a lifesaver.
With short to medium hair, a loose bun or ponytail with a few pieces left out can look effortless and intentional.
Gather your hair at the back, secure loosely, and pull out face‑framing strands for a soft, relaxed feel.
#27. Layered Cut with Side-Swept Fringe
When hair looks flat and one‑dimensional, I love adding layers and a side‑swept fringe.
The different lengths create movement and depth, especially on thicker hair.
Ask for layered cutting throughout and a fringe that sweeps across your forehead to highlight your eyes.
#28. Beach Waves on Medium Length
Beach waves are a forever classic and look amazing on medium‑length hair.
They give you that relaxed, vacation‑ready vibe while still looking polished enough for everyday life.
Use a curling wand or flat iron to create loose bends, then break them up with your fingers and a little texturizing spray.
#29. Short Cut with Textured Top
For women over 40 who want something quick and modern, a short cut with a textured top is ideal.
The cropped sides and back keep styling easy, while the textured top adds lift and trendiness.
Blow‑dry upward and work in a texturizing spray or paste, styling with your fingers in seconds.
#30. Mid-Length Bob with Defined Waves
When you need a more refined version of waves, I love defined curls on a mid‑length bob.
Tighter, more structured waves give a polished, elegant look that’s perfect for dinners, events, or the office.
Use a smaller‑barrel iron, curl in neat sections, and avoid over‑brushing to keep the shape intact.
#31. Sleek Ponytail for Long Hair
A sleek ponytail is a fantastic option when you want your long hair out of the way but still chic.
It highlights your facial features and gives an instant lifting effect along the cheekbones.
Smooth your hair back with a brush and gel, secure it tightly, and wrap a small strand around the elastic for a polished finish.
#32. Choppy Layered Mid-Length Style
If your fine or thin hair feels lifeless, a choppy layered mid‑length cut can transform it.
The uneven, piecey layers add body and movement, especially when styled with loose curls or waves.
Ask for lots of short and long layers mixed in, then tousle with a curling iron and texturizing spray.
#33. Elegant Low Bun
For upscale events, an elegant low bun is one of my go‑to suggestions.
Worn at the nape of the neck, it looks refined, sophisticated, and pairs beautifully with statement earrings.
Have your stylist keep it smooth and neat or slightly textured and soft, depending on your outfit and vibe.
#34. Razor Cut Bob with Fringe
If you’re full of energy and want your hair to match, this razor‑cut bob with fringe is perfect.
The razor technique creates light, wispy edges and tons of motion, while the fringe adds playful impact.
Ask for razor work through the ends and a bold fringe, then style with a bit of texture cream for swing.
#35. Shoulder-Length Cut with Flipped Ends
Flipping the ends of a shoulder‑length cut is such a simple way to refresh your look.
The flipped-out finish adds movement and a playful, youthful twist without changing your length.
Use a round brush or curling iron to bend the ends outward and set with light hairspray.
#36. Soft Pixie with Side Parting
For ultra‑low‑maintenance hair that still feels feminine, I love a soft pixie with a side part.
The side part gently frames your face and keeps the style from feeling too severe.
Blow‑dry in the direction of your part, then smooth with a tiny bit of cream for a polished but easy look.
#37. Long Layers with Slight Curl
Long layers with a slight curl are perfect when long hair starts to feel weighed down.
The subtle curl brings life and body while still looking natural and relaxed.
Curl just the mid‑lengths and ends with a large‑barrel iron and brush lightly for a soft, fluid shape.
#38. Half-Up, Half-Down Style for Mid-Length Hair
A half‑up, half‑down style is playful and flattering, especially on mid‑length hair.
It pulls hair away from your face while still showing off your length and texture.
Gather the top section, secure with a clip or elastic, and leave the rest down in waves or curls.
#39. Tousled Bob with Bangs
This tousled bob with bangs has a carefree, youthful energy that works at any age.
The messy texture keeps it fun, while the bangs give just enough structure to frame your eyes.
Use a texturizing spray and your fingers to rough things up and keep it perfectly imperfect.
#40. Long Straight Cut with Layered Ends
If you want to keep your length but still upgrade your look, layered ends on straight hair are a great solution.
The layers keep the hair from looking heavy or blocky and add subtle movement at the bottom.
Ask for long, face‑framing layers and soft layering through the ends, then wear it sleek for maximum shine.
#41. Curly Shoulder-Length Bob
For naturally curly girls, a shoulder‑length bob can be incredibly flattering.
It enhances each curl and creates a bouncy frame around your face that feels fresh and youthful.
Use a curl cream and diffuser to define your texture and avoid over‑layering so the shape stays full.
#42. High Volume Short Cut
If you already have a longer pixie or short cut and want more drama, cranking up the volume is the answer.
Height around the front and crown adds boldness and draws attention upward.
Tease at the roots, add a volumizing powder, and shape with your fingers for that full, statement look.
#43. Mid-Length Cut with Razor Ends
Razor‑cut ends on a mid‑length style are perfect if straight hair feels “blah.”
The razored finish adds edge and texture, especially when you add soft waves.
Ask for razor work around the perimeter and style with loose curls that you shake out for movement.
#44. Classic French Twist for Long Hair
A classic French twist is a beautiful choice when you want old‑school elegance.
It’s a polished updo that pairs best with your favorite dress and refined accessories.
Twist your hair upward from the nape, tuck the ends, and pin securely—then smooth the surface for a sleek finish.
#45. Pixie with Sweeping Bangs
This pixie with sweeping bangs is relaxed, modern, and sexy in such an effortless way.
The longer bangs soften the face and add movement, while the cropped sides keep styling quick.
Blow‑dry the fringe across your forehead and finish with a light wax to keep it in place without stiffness.
#46. Layered Long Bob (Lob)
When your long bob needs a refresh, adding layers is a subtle but powerful upgrade.
They create more bounce and shape from front to back without sacrificing the length you love.
Ask for layered cutting throughout your lob and style with waves or a smooth blowout to show the new movement.
#47. Straight Mid-Length Cut with Side Bangs
If you like to play it safe but still want something flattering, this straight mid‑length cut with side bangs is a classic.
The length works on almost every face shape, and the side bangs soften features without feeling heavy.
Style straight with a flat iron and curve the bangs slightly under for a gentle frame.
#48. Short Wavy Pixie
Leaving your pixie a bit longer on top gives you room to play with waves.
This short wavy pixie feels energetic and fun, perfect if you love movement but not length.
Use a small curling iron or your natural texture, then scrunch in a mousse or cream for defined, bouncy waves.
#49. Medium Layered Cut with Curtain Bangs
A medium layered cut with curtain bangs brings instant retro‑chic energy.
The curtain fringe flatters almost every face shape by opening up the center and softening the sides.
Ask for a middle part with bangs that split around the cheekbones and style with a round brush for swoopy movement.
#50. Braided Updo for Medium to Long Hair
When you’re in the mood to feel like a princess, a braided updo is the way to go.
Braids add texture and interest, turning a simple updo into something whimsical and special.
Have your stylist weave one or more braids into a bun or twist, then pair it with a soft dress and delicate jewelry.
#51. Chin-Length Bob with Rounded Back
A chin‑length bob with a rounded back is chic, simple, and incredibly easy to maintain.
The rounded shape at the back builds volume and creates a beautiful curve along the neckline.
Ask for a stacked or rounded bob and keep the styling sleek or slightly tousled depending on your mood.
#52. Sleek Straight Long Hair with Layers
If you love long, straight hair, adding layers is the perfect way to give it more life.
The layers create subtle movement and prevent your hair from looking like one solid sheet.
Use a flat iron for a glassy finish and a bit of serum on the ends to highlight the layered shape.
#53. Soft Curly Bob with Bangs
For a youthful, lively look, a soft curly bob with bangs is always a winner.
The curls give lots of bounce, while the bangs add sweetness and frame your features beautifully.
Use curl cream and a diffuser, then gently separate curls with your fingers once they’re dry.
#54. Short Asymmetrical Cut
To take a longer pixie from “nice” to “wow,” I love introducing asymmetry.
A longer side with a strong side part creates drama and a sleek, fashion‑forward vibe.
Have your stylist cut one side noticeably longer and smooth it with a straightener and shine product.
#55. Long Layers with Face-Framing Bangs
If you’ve been thinking about bangs, face‑framing pieces are a gorgeous, forgiving way to start.
They draw attention to your eyes and cheekbones and break up the length so it doesn’t feel monotonous.
Ask for long, layered bangs that blend into your lengths, then style them away from your face for softness.
#56. Elegant Chignon for Special Occasions
For truly formal events, an elegant chignon never goes out of style.
It sits low at the nape and looks incredibly refined, especially with a polished outfit and accessories.
Have your stylist twist and pin your hair into a smooth roll, leaving the front soft or sleek depending on your taste.
#57. Mid-Length Cut with Voluminous Curls
If you have curly hair, a mid‑length cut is perfect for showing it off.
The length gives curls room to expand and bounce, creating a full, eye‑catching shape.
Use curl‑defining products and diffuse gently to keep volume while reducing frizz.
#58. Layered Pixie with Textured Finish
A layered pixie with a textured finish is ideal when you want a short style that still feels playful.
The mix of layers adds interest from every angle, and the texture keeps it youthful and flirty.
Work a texturizing paste through dry hair and pinch small sections to create separation.
#59. Simple Ponytail with Soft Waves
A ponytail doesn’t have to look basic—soft waves can elevate it instantly.
The waves add romance and refinement, turning a quick style into something pretty and put‑together.
Curl your hair first, then gather it into a ponytail and loosen a few pieces around your face.
#60. Angled Lob with Soft Layers
An angled lob with soft layers is one of my favorite hairstyles for women over 40 who want movement and style without going too short.
The angle keeps the front longer and face‑framing, while the layers prevent the shape from feeling heavy.
Ask for a slightly longer front, shorter back, and delicate layers throughout, then style with loose curls for maximum swing.